NECESSITY FOR MARRIAGE - BY DR. HESPEY

NECESSITY FOR MARRIAGE

WRITTEN BY DR. HESPEY

Marriage, As We All Know Is The Union Of Two Opposite Gender, Either For Reproduction Or For Companionship. But The Question That Has Been Coming To My Table For Long Is: "Is Marriage Really Important? And How High Are We To Rate Marriage?"

This Is Why I Have Decided To Bring To You Some Of The Major Reason Why Marriage Is An Important Factor Of Life. Though For Everything Under The Sun, There Are Disadvantages & Advantages. But For The Sake Of Positivity We Will Discuss It Advantage Because Its Advantages Are More Profitable Than Its Disadvantages.

The Advantages Of Marriage As I Have Claimed Is Certain, This Is So, Because For The Fact That There Are Disadvantages In Remaining Single, It Simply Implies That There Are Advantages In Being Married Of Which I Strongly Believe It Cannot Be Denied By Anyone.

First And Foremost, The Creator Of The Universe Himself Exclaimed In The Scripture That "It Is Never Good For The Man To Be Alone" Just As Found In The Book Genesis 2:18. The Unionism Of A Man And A Woman Known As Marriage Was Therefore Instituted Due To This.
From The Beginning, The Marital Relationship Became A Place Of Healing. Just As This Was True For Adam When The Wounds Of Solitude Were Soothed By Eve As Found In Genesis 2:23, So It Is One Of The Characteristics Of Healthy Marriages Today. Couples Bring Old Hurts And Insecurities To Their Marriage. As A New Pattern Of Loving Is Established, Those Scars And Bruises Are Gradually Touched And Healed By God Through One Another. Then They Lose Their Restrictive Power.

The Love That Marriage Produces Is Never Unlimited, Because Marital Love Often Frees Persons To Love Others. Marriage Can Therefore Double A Person's Effectiveness In The Service Of God.
A Couple's Usefulness Is Enhanced By Their Completion Of Each Other And Their Complementarity. As At The Beginning, Marriage Is That Point Where Two Sexually Incomplete But Compatible Persons Of The Opposite Sex Unite. In Fusing Their Bodies, They Create A Whole, New, Third Person, "Us." There Is No Loss Of Identity In This Fusion. Rather, This Combination Of Resources Is An Investment From Which Both Gain. The Dividends Are Mutual Strength, Encouragement And Support. As These "Two Solitudes Protect And Touch And Greet Each Other," They In Turn Find Themselves Able To Reach Out To Others. This Is Love's Overflow. It Is One Of The Reasons Why Christian Marriages Are Greatly Used By God.

For Marital Union Also Known As Marriage Is Not Just About Sexual Activities. Christian Marriage Can Be That Place Where Two Loves Meet; The Human And The Divine, It Can Be A Place Where Interactions With God Becomes A Joint Activity.

The Author Of Genesis Unveils His Mystery In Genesis 1:28-29. Adam And Eve Met The Lord God Who Talked To Them, Instructed Them And Walked With Them In The Garden.
The Joys Of Family Life, Moreover, Are Frequently Applauded In The Old Testament. It Does Not Even Mention A Word For "Bachelor." It Would Seem That Marriage Was The Norm In Those Days.
Then What Does The New Testament Teaches About Marriage? It Is Being Derived That Jesus Places A Strong Emphasis On The Sanctity Of The Marital Bond. He Reiterates The Responsibility That Couples Have To Leave The Past Behind So That They Are Free To Unite To Form A One-body Relationship. Jesus Does Not Only Acknowledges Marriage; He Blesses It With His Presence In The Book Of John 2, Rescues Embarrassed Newly-weds With A Miracle, And Promises That Couples Who Work At "Leaving And Cleaving" Will, Gradually, Become One Just A Found In Matthew 19:4-6.
The Partners Are The Objects Both Of The Other's Love And Of God's Love
This Is The Great Advantage Of Marriage.

This Love Sustains The Woman Who Needs To Be Valued, Respected And Comforted.

But That's Not All, It Also Nurtures The Man Whose Need Is For A Companion, Someone Who Will Be All For Him, Who Will Be On His Side In Times Of Stress.

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