ARGUMENTATION IN RELATIONSHIP
WRITTEN BY DR. HESPEY
An Argument Is A Statement Or Set Of Statements That You Use In Order To Try To Convince People That Your Opinion About Something Is Correct.
In A Case Study Of Mine, I Discovered That A Relationship With No Arguments Is Likely To Be A Relationship With A Lot Of Secrets And Sometimes Secretive Relationships Aren’t So Good Enough For Us.
This Is Why I See Disagreements In Relationships To be Healthy When They Are Minimal.
And The Truth That I Have Come About Them Is That: They Help Partners To Get To Know More Of Each Other’s Likes And Dislikes.
And When Disagreements Arise Between Partners It Doesn’t Mean That They Should Just End A Relationship.
Sometimes A Break Up Is Not A Solution To Minor Problems That Can Be Solved.
Talking Things Out Is Better Than Letting Go Of A Relationship You Have Kept For Many Years Or Months.
So Whenever Disagreements Come Up In Your Relationship Don’t Always Think Of Breaking Up With Your Partner As A Solution.
You Just Have To Text, Call Or Meet Your Partner And You Have A Straight Heart To Heart Talk.
If You Were The One Wrong Admit And Say Sorry To Your Lover. Walk Away, Because Winning That Particular Argument Might Not Worth All The Strife. Take Your Energy Out Of A Losing Battle And Conserve It For Another Time.
And Don’t Feel Bad About Conceding Even If You Feel You Still Have A Horse In The Race. After All, What Does One Really Gain By Arguing With Someone Who Fails To See The Legitima In The Ideas And Opinions Of Others?
So Take A Step Back And Ask Yourself Of The Outcome Of The Argument, Wherever The Victory Falls, Will They Really Make Any Difference To You, At All. This Is What Happy Couples Do When They Fight.
So Instead Of Being The Win-seeker, Relax And Make Things Work As They Ought To. And I Am Certain If Your Partner Truly Loves You He Or She Will Forgive You And Your Relationship Will Go On. So Don’t Feel Too Big To Say Sorry To Your Lover.
Saying Sorry Takes Nothing From You It’s Just A Small Word Which Quickly Soothes The Tension Or The Pain Between Lovers But Very Many People Out There Fail To Say It.
Say It Whenever You Are Wrong So That You Can Save Your Relationship And Always Mean It.
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