ARGUMENTATION IN RELATIONSHIPS - BY DR. HESPEY

ARGUMENTATION IN RELATIONSHIP

WRITTEN BY DR. HESPEY

An Argument Is A Statement Or Set Of Statements That You Use In Order To Try To Convince People That Your Opinion About Something Is Correct.

In A Case Study Of Mine, I Discovered That A Relationship With No Arguments Is Likely To Be A Relationship With A Lot Of Secrets And Sometimes Secretive Relationships Aren’t So Good Enough For Us.
This Is Why I See Disagreements In Relationships To be Healthy When They Are Minimal.

And The Truth That I Have Come About Them Is That: They Help Partners To Get To Know More Of Each Other’s Likes And Dislikes.
And When Disagreements Arise Between Partners It Doesn’t Mean That They Should Just End A Relationship.
Sometimes A Break Up Is Not A Solution To Minor Problems That Can Be Solved.
Talking Things Out Is Better Than Letting Go Of A Relationship You Have Kept For Many Years Or Months.
So Whenever Disagreements Come Up In Your Relationship Don’t Always Think Of Breaking Up With Your Partner As A Solution.
You Just Have To Text, Call Or Meet Your Partner And You Have A Straight Heart To Heart Talk.
If You Were The One Wrong Admit And Say Sorry To Your Lover. Walk Away, Because Winning That Particular Argument Might Not Worth All The Strife. Take Your Energy Out Of A Losing Battle And Conserve It For Another Time.
And Don’t Feel Bad About Conceding Even If You Feel You Still Have A Horse In The Race. After All, What Does One Really Gain By Arguing With Someone Who Fails To See The Legitima In The Ideas And Opinions Of Others?

So Take A Step Back And Ask Yourself Of The Outcome Of The Argument, Wherever The Victory Falls, Will They Really Make Any Difference To You, At All. This Is What Happy Couples Do When They Fight.
So Instead Of Being The Win-seeker, Relax And Make Things Work As They Ought To. And I Am Certain If Your Partner Truly Loves You He Or She Will Forgive You And Your Relationship Will Go On. So Don’t Feel Too Big To Say Sorry To Your Lover.
Saying Sorry Takes Nothing From You It’s Just A Small Word Which Quickly Soothes The Tension Or The Pain Between Lovers But Very Many People Out There Fail To Say It.
Say It Whenever You Are Wrong So That You Can Save Your Relationship And Always Mean It.

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NECESSITY FOR MARRIAGE - BY DR. HESPEY

NECESSITY FOR MARRIAGE

WRITTEN BY DR. HESPEY

Marriage, As We All Know Is The Union Of Two Opposite Gender, Either For Reproduction Or For Companionship. But The Question That Has Been Coming To My Table For Long Is: "Is Marriage Really Important? And How High Are We To Rate Marriage?"

This Is Why I Have Decided To Bring To You Some Of The Major Reason Why Marriage Is An Important Factor Of Life. Though For Everything Under The Sun, There Are Disadvantages & Advantages. But For The Sake Of Positivity We Will Discuss It Advantage Because Its Advantages Are More Profitable Than Its Disadvantages.

The Advantages Of Marriage As I Have Claimed Is Certain, This Is So, Because For The Fact That There Are Disadvantages In Remaining Single, It Simply Implies That There Are Advantages In Being Married Of Which I Strongly Believe It Cannot Be Denied By Anyone.

First And Foremost, The Creator Of The Universe Himself Exclaimed In The Scripture That "It Is Never Good For The Man To Be Alone" Just As Found In The Book Genesis 2:18. The Unionism Of A Man And A Woman Known As Marriage Was Therefore Instituted Due To This.
From The Beginning, The Marital Relationship Became A Place Of Healing. Just As This Was True For Adam When The Wounds Of Solitude Were Soothed By Eve As Found In Genesis 2:23, So It Is One Of The Characteristics Of Healthy Marriages Today. Couples Bring Old Hurts And Insecurities To Their Marriage. As A New Pattern Of Loving Is Established, Those Scars And Bruises Are Gradually Touched And Healed By God Through One Another. Then They Lose Their Restrictive Power.

The Love That Marriage Produces Is Never Unlimited, Because Marital Love Often Frees Persons To Love Others. Marriage Can Therefore Double A Person's Effectiveness In The Service Of God.
A Couple's Usefulness Is Enhanced By Their Completion Of Each Other And Their Complementarity. As At The Beginning, Marriage Is That Point Where Two Sexually Incomplete But Compatible Persons Of The Opposite Sex Unite. In Fusing Their Bodies, They Create A Whole, New, Third Person, "Us." There Is No Loss Of Identity In This Fusion. Rather, This Combination Of Resources Is An Investment From Which Both Gain. The Dividends Are Mutual Strength, Encouragement And Support. As These "Two Solitudes Protect And Touch And Greet Each Other," They In Turn Find Themselves Able To Reach Out To Others. This Is Love's Overflow. It Is One Of The Reasons Why Christian Marriages Are Greatly Used By God.

For Marital Union Also Known As Marriage Is Not Just About Sexual Activities. Christian Marriage Can Be That Place Where Two Loves Meet; The Human And The Divine, It Can Be A Place Where Interactions With God Becomes A Joint Activity.

The Author Of Genesis Unveils His Mystery In Genesis 1:28-29. Adam And Eve Met The Lord God Who Talked To Them, Instructed Them And Walked With Them In The Garden.
The Joys Of Family Life, Moreover, Are Frequently Applauded In The Old Testament. It Does Not Even Mention A Word For "Bachelor." It Would Seem That Marriage Was The Norm In Those Days.
Then What Does The New Testament Teaches About Marriage? It Is Being Derived That Jesus Places A Strong Emphasis On The Sanctity Of The Marital Bond. He Reiterates The Responsibility That Couples Have To Leave The Past Behind So That They Are Free To Unite To Form A One-body Relationship. Jesus Does Not Only Acknowledges Marriage; He Blesses It With His Presence In The Book Of John 2, Rescues Embarrassed Newly-weds With A Miracle, And Promises That Couples Who Work At "Leaving And Cleaving" Will, Gradually, Become One Just A Found In Matthew 19:4-6.
The Partners Are The Objects Both Of The Other's Love And Of God's Love
This Is The Great Advantage Of Marriage.

This Love Sustains The Woman Who Needs To Be Valued, Respected And Comforted.

But That's Not All, It Also Nurtures The Man Whose Need Is For A Companion, Someone Who Will Be All For Him, Who Will Be On His Side In Times Of Stress.

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