PREMARITAL SEX AS STABILITY ERASER - BY DR. HESPEY

PREMARITAL SEX AS STABILITY ERASER

WRITTEN BY DR. HESPEY

Have You Ever Discovered Or Once Noticed How Premarital Sex Destabilize Its Victim?
I Am Writing This To Bring Certain Things To Daylight And Most Of My Pressure Will Be On My Ladies, Because To Be Frank With You Sisters, You Will & Always Be Badly Affected Mostly If You Practice Any Sort Of Premarital Activity.
Few Years Ago I Was On A Trip To A State For A Visitation & Counselling Unit. After This Counselling Unit, I Came Across An Issue Of A Teenage Lady Who Practice Premarital Sex With A Guy & She Took In (Which Means She Become Pregnant), She Then Took Multiple Steps To Get Rid Of It, But All Attempt Failed.
Due To This, She Find It Shameful To Carry This Pregnancy Around Or To Even Stay In The Midst Of Friends. In Her Doubted Solvable Issue, She Sees Fleeing As The Next Option Which Bring Instability To Her, The Guy That Impregnated Her & Their Parents.
Then This Inspirations Comes Within Me That I Have To Address 3 Sets Of People Due To This: (I) The Single Ladies, (II) The Single Guys & (III) All Parents (IV) Ministers.

DEAR SINGLE LADIES:
The Message They Will Never Tell You Before They Have Sex With You Is That It Will Take Away Your Stability & Replace It With SHAME & GUILT.
They Won't Tell You You AREN'T ONE YET, So When It Turns Back To You, They Are Free To & Can Flee, Leaving You With Your Burden.
My Dear, When Things Go Worse, They Can Still Go Ahead And Have Sex With Any Other Lady They See Around, Because You Aren't Theirs Yet And They Definitely Aren't Yours Either.
I Want To Urge You Ladies To Be Very Careful, Your Brain Is Meant To Be Used To Implement Issues Pertaining To Your Life. Use It Well, When You As A Lady Fail To Give Them Sex As They Expect Sex, And If Sexual Resistance Widely Practice, They Will Open Their Head And Make It Active.

DEAR SINGLE GUYS:
You May See Sleeping Around While Single As Fun & Pleasure Satisfier, But Let Me Tell You This, It Will Affect Your Life & Bring You Down No Matter Your Worth.
Many Don't Understand How Destiny Escorts Every Sexual Activities Done Premaritally. Premarital Sex Is Against God's Will, And Whoever Practice It Is Against God.
Being Godly Is The Best Key My Brother With Eternal Rewards & A Stable Life.

DEAR PARENTS:
Dear Parents, You All Need To Wake Up To The Responsibility Of Your Wards, They Are Your Heritages, Keeping Mute Or Watching Them Being Trained Outside Your Domain Is Dangerous, Every Training Needs To Start From You As Parents. And Remember, Your Wards Are Of God, Sent To You For Proper Care & Directions. When Things Go Wrong With Your Wards, You Won't Be Granted Peace As A Mother Or Father. So Why Not Prevent All This Sort Of Instability Before It Shows Up? Why Not Take Up Your Duty More Fervently Before God's Wrath Show Up On You For Not Treating Your Wards Right? Teach Them The Message Of Purity Indoor, Explain It To Them Or Get Them Counsel When Needed. Silence Kills. Its Your First Responsibility.

DEAR MINISTERS:

Your Failure To Teach, Preach Or Mention The Message Of Sex On The Pulpit Is Killing. Your Primary Responsibility As A Shepherd Is To Guide Your Sheep & Teach Them Ways By Which They Won't Go Astray.
Preach About Sex, Preach Its Positivity When Used As God's Too In Marriage, Preach About Its Negativity When Used Outside God's Will, Teach Them The Ways Of Having A Profitable Spiritual Life Through Sexual Abstinence.
Failure To Treat This As A Minister Gives Your Ministry A Very Big Question To Answer And Your Purpose Is Surely Not Fulfilled As A Minister If You Keep Having Members Falling Into Sexual Immortality Because You Refuse To Talk Of Sex.

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GIVING FITNESS TO YOUR MARRIAGE - BY DR. HESPEY

GIVING FITNESS TO YOUR MARRIAGE
THE CONCLUDING PART

ALWAYS EXPECT UPS AND DOWNS

WRITTEN BY DR. HESPEY

Starting this, i will love to start with John 16:33 (NET), This passage states that: I have told you these things so that in me you may have peace. In the world you have trouble and suffering, but take courage – I have conquered the world.”

Being a believer or not doesn’t really stop tribulations & troubles, this is why It’s important to recognise that there are ups and downs in every relationship.
As a member of Lautech’s class of 21, an issue came up in my group yesternight which deals with the differences human shares, but it never get to me that much, because being able to focus on goodness more than otherwise has been a major motivator.

So in relationships, what you must know is that You won’t always be on the same page. Sometimes one partner may be struggling with an issue that stresses them, such as
the death of a close family member or the likes. Other events, like job loss, severe health problems or diversity of perspectives can affect both partners and make it difficult to relate to each other.

You might have different ideas of managing finances, raising children or making decisions. Different people cope with stress differently, and misunderstanding can rapidly turn to frustration and anger. Letting those frustrations & anger get to you is what turns goodness the other way round, so avoid it in order to save your home & relationship.

WATCH OUT FOR TIPS ON “GETTING THROUGH ITS UP & DOWNS”.

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ARGUMENTATION IN RELATIONSHIPS - BY DR. HESPEY

ARGUMENTATION IN RELATIONSHIP

WRITTEN BY DR. HESPEY

An Argument Is A Statement Or Set Of Statements That You Use In Order To Try To Convince People That Your Opinion About Something Is Correct.

In A Case Study Of Mine, I Discovered That A Relationship With No Arguments Is Likely To Be A Relationship With A Lot Of Secrets And Sometimes Secretive Relationships Aren’t So Good Enough For Us.
This Is Why I See Disagreements In Relationships To be Healthy When They Are Minimal.

And The Truth That I Have Come About Them Is That: They Help Partners To Get To Know More Of Each Other’s Likes And Dislikes.
And When Disagreements Arise Between Partners It Doesn’t Mean That They Should Just End A Relationship.
Sometimes A Break Up Is Not A Solution To Minor Problems That Can Be Solved.
Talking Things Out Is Better Than Letting Go Of A Relationship You Have Kept For Many Years Or Months.
So Whenever Disagreements Come Up In Your Relationship Don’t Always Think Of Breaking Up With Your Partner As A Solution.
You Just Have To Text, Call Or Meet Your Partner And You Have A Straight Heart To Heart Talk.
If You Were The One Wrong Admit And Say Sorry To Your Lover. Walk Away, Because Winning That Particular Argument Might Not Worth All The Strife. Take Your Energy Out Of A Losing Battle And Conserve It For Another Time.
And Don’t Feel Bad About Conceding Even If You Feel You Still Have A Horse In The Race. After All, What Does One Really Gain By Arguing With Someone Who Fails To See The Legitima In The Ideas And Opinions Of Others?

So Take A Step Back And Ask Yourself Of The Outcome Of The Argument, Wherever The Victory Falls, Will They Really Make Any Difference To You, At All. This Is What Happy Couples Do When They Fight.
So Instead Of Being The Win-seeker, Relax And Make Things Work As They Ought To. And I Am Certain If Your Partner Truly Loves You He Or She Will Forgive You And Your Relationship Will Go On. So Don’t Feel Too Big To Say Sorry To Your Lover.
Saying Sorry Takes Nothing From You It’s Just A Small Word Which Quickly Soothes The Tension Or The Pain Between Lovers But Very Many People Out There Fail To Say It.
Say It Whenever You Are Wrong So That You Can Save Your Relationship And Always Mean It.

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NECESSITY FOR MARRIAGE - BY DR. HESPEY

NECESSITY FOR MARRIAGE

WRITTEN BY DR. HESPEY

Marriage, As We All Know Is The Union Of Two Opposite Gender, Either For Reproduction Or For Companionship. But The Question That Has Been Coming To My Table For Long Is: "Is Marriage Really Important? And How High Are We To Rate Marriage?"

This Is Why I Have Decided To Bring To You Some Of The Major Reason Why Marriage Is An Important Factor Of Life. Though For Everything Under The Sun, There Are Disadvantages & Advantages. But For The Sake Of Positivity We Will Discuss It Advantage Because Its Advantages Are More Profitable Than Its Disadvantages.

The Advantages Of Marriage As I Have Claimed Is Certain, This Is So, Because For The Fact That There Are Disadvantages In Remaining Single, It Simply Implies That There Are Advantages In Being Married Of Which I Strongly Believe It Cannot Be Denied By Anyone.

First And Foremost, The Creator Of The Universe Himself Exclaimed In The Scripture That "It Is Never Good For The Man To Be Alone" Just As Found In The Book Genesis 2:18. The Unionism Of A Man And A Woman Known As Marriage Was Therefore Instituted Due To This.
From The Beginning, The Marital Relationship Became A Place Of Healing. Just As This Was True For Adam When The Wounds Of Solitude Were Soothed By Eve As Found In Genesis 2:23, So It Is One Of The Characteristics Of Healthy Marriages Today. Couples Bring Old Hurts And Insecurities To Their Marriage. As A New Pattern Of Loving Is Established, Those Scars And Bruises Are Gradually Touched And Healed By God Through One Another. Then They Lose Their Restrictive Power.

The Love That Marriage Produces Is Never Unlimited, Because Marital Love Often Frees Persons To Love Others. Marriage Can Therefore Double A Person's Effectiveness In The Service Of God.
A Couple's Usefulness Is Enhanced By Their Completion Of Each Other And Their Complementarity. As At The Beginning, Marriage Is That Point Where Two Sexually Incomplete But Compatible Persons Of The Opposite Sex Unite. In Fusing Their Bodies, They Create A Whole, New, Third Person, "Us." There Is No Loss Of Identity In This Fusion. Rather, This Combination Of Resources Is An Investment From Which Both Gain. The Dividends Are Mutual Strength, Encouragement And Support. As These "Two Solitudes Protect And Touch And Greet Each Other," They In Turn Find Themselves Able To Reach Out To Others. This Is Love's Overflow. It Is One Of The Reasons Why Christian Marriages Are Greatly Used By God.

For Marital Union Also Known As Marriage Is Not Just About Sexual Activities. Christian Marriage Can Be That Place Where Two Loves Meet; The Human And The Divine, It Can Be A Place Where Interactions With God Becomes A Joint Activity.

The Author Of Genesis Unveils His Mystery In Genesis 1:28-29. Adam And Eve Met The Lord God Who Talked To Them, Instructed Them And Walked With Them In The Garden.
The Joys Of Family Life, Moreover, Are Frequently Applauded In The Old Testament. It Does Not Even Mention A Word For "Bachelor." It Would Seem That Marriage Was The Norm In Those Days.
Then What Does The New Testament Teaches About Marriage? It Is Being Derived That Jesus Places A Strong Emphasis On The Sanctity Of The Marital Bond. He Reiterates The Responsibility That Couples Have To Leave The Past Behind So That They Are Free To Unite To Form A One-body Relationship. Jesus Does Not Only Acknowledges Marriage; He Blesses It With His Presence In The Book Of John 2, Rescues Embarrassed Newly-weds With A Miracle, And Promises That Couples Who Work At "Leaving And Cleaving" Will, Gradually, Become One Just A Found In Matthew 19:4-6.
The Partners Are The Objects Both Of The Other's Love And Of God's Love
This Is The Great Advantage Of Marriage.

This Love Sustains The Woman Who Needs To Be Valued, Respected And Comforted.

But That's Not All, It Also Nurtures The Man Whose Need Is For A Companion, Someone Who Will Be All For Him, Who Will Be On His Side In Times Of Stress.

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