SEX, NOT THE MOST PRIORITIZED - BY DR. HESPEY

SEX, NOT THE MOST PRIORITIZED

WRITTEN BY DR. HESPEY

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This Article Is Written To Both My Single Readers & Couples. Just As The Way Lustful Youths Sees SEX As An INSTRUMENT And The Most TO-BE-USED During Their Relationship Is Just The Same Way Most Couples Sees SEX As A PRIORITY And The Most PRIORITIZED In Their Marriage.

Though Sex Is An IMPORTANT ELEMENT In MARRIAGE, And As Far I Am Concern, Until There Is Sexual Intercourse Between A Husband And A Wife, The Marriage Is Not Yet SPIRITUALLY RECOGNISED. Because The Bible Speaks Of Situations Where Few Men Knew (had sex with) Their Wives. This Biblically Shows How Important Sex Is Only In The Court Of Marriage.

But As A Case Study, When I Study How Agressive Most Men Use To Be Regarding Sex, It Came To My Mind That Most Of Them Only See Women As An Object Of Sex Alone And They Tend To See Sex As Their Major Priority In Their Marriage.

A Type Of Relationship That Demands For Sex During Dating Or Courtship Is Likely To Be The One That Depends On Sex After Their Wedding, And Of Which They Go Against What Real Marriage Is Meant To Be. 

The Real Fact That I Need You To Know Is That "What A Man Needs Most From A Woman Is Never Sex And It Can Never Be Sex Alone.

Many Young Girls Think Because They Are Sexually Active And Experience They Will Easily Be Married And Have Their Husbands Loving Them. And When A Man Approaches Them For Marriage They Think The Greatest Asset They Have To Show Or Offer The Man Is Sex. Meanwhile, Others Also Think Once They Are Giving Out Their Bodies It Means They Are Giving Out The Best For Which Reason They Will Be Chosen Above All.

For Instance, There Is This Young Girl Who Is Very Beautiful And Sexually Active. Due To That She Thought Sex Is All That Matters To A Man. Ironically, She Struggled For Long Before Finally Getting Married. Her Sexual Dexterity Could Not Win Her The Heart Of A Man Until A Very Handsome Good Man Married Her. The Wedding Was Grand And Her Tears Were Now Gone. Unfortunately Only A Year After The Wedding, The Marriage Fell On Rocks. Within Five Years Three Different Men Came Her Way But None Could Stay. This Happened Because She Thought Sex Was All That Matters Just Like Others Use To Be Too Aggressive Towards It, So She Would Never Submit To Her Man.

But The Real Sense Is, Sex Is Just An Instrument, Meant To Be Used Once In A While in marriage, Because Submission Is What Responsible Men Need, Not Sex. And As A Medical Practitioner, I Have Discovered That Excessive Sexual Activities Leads To Many Deadly Diseases Which Will Be Another Topic Entirely To Be Discussed In My Next Article.

It Is High Time For Our Young Ladies, Guys, Married Men & Women To Know That Marriage Will Not Look Out For SEXUAL SATISFACTION Only, But Marriage Requires Submission And Responsibilities.

The Holy Bible Mandated It By Saying, "All Wives Should Submit To Their Husband." And Regarding Submission, I Have Come To Learn That A Man's True Love Only Goes Out To A Woman Who Is Submissive To Him. And The Real Truth That I Must Let You Know Is That Your SEXUAL ACTIVENESS Cannot Make Another Woman Ugly In The Presence Of Your Man, But Your HUMILITY Can Let Him Love You Above All Other Women.

Marriage Requires HUMILITY As A PRIORITY." So Be You A Guy Or Lady, When You Are Humble, You Will Be An EXPENSIVE JEWELRY Of Which A Man/Woman Of High Integrity Will Fear To Lose You.

And Lastly, I Will Like To Change Your Perspective Towards What SUBMISSION Is.

Never You See SUBMISSION As Being "IN CONTROL OF." Your SUBMISSIVE Heart Doesn't Mean You Will Be Dominate On. The Truth Is If You See SUBMISSION As Being Under Someone, This Will Only Make You Raise Your PRIDE And PUSH THE RIGHT PERSON AWAY. The LACK OF SUBMISSION Just Simply Means Your Heart Is Actually Greater Than Your Height, And Get It Straight, No Man Will Ever Settle For Such, Not To Talk Of Loving Such.

I Pray The Good Lord Will Give Us All His Full Understanding And Direct Us On What Real Marriage Means And What Its Requirements Are in Jesus name.

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     DR. HESPEY (2017)

(Author of Building The Godly Youth)

(Founder of Godly Relationship & Advocate Ministry)