TEN COMMANDMENTS FOR GODLY RELATIONSHIPS - BY DR. HESPEY

TEN COMMANDMENTS FOR GODLY RELATIONSHIPS

PART 9

AVOID COMPARISON

WRITTEN BY DR. HESPEY

Comparison is one of the major causes of some broken relationship these days, its common among the ladies & very few guy to are victims. Comparison kills when used often in the presence of one's partner.

The problem with comparing your relationship to other people's relationship is that you never have all of the information. 

You’re making assumptions based only on part of the facts, but the reality is that unless you’re in the relationship, you’ll never fully grasp its delicate dynamic.

This truth, coupled with the fact that people tend to present their best face to the public, exemplifies why your comparisons cannot be based in complete accuracy. You then judge the quality of your relationship by something which essentially doesn’t exist.

The real fact and truth that you must know is that No Two Relationships Are Alike.

As relationships are comprised of two unique individuals, bringing different life experiences to the relationship, no two couples are alike.

To judge the quality of your relationship on whether the two of you have the same dynamic as other couples is a waste of time.

No one can tell you how your relationship should be, especially since what works for some people definitely doesn’t work for others.

Therefore, All you need to be sure of is if the two of you work, with your individual and distinct personalities that make your relationship uniquely yours.

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     DR. HESPEY (2017)

(Author of Building The Godly Youth)

(Founder of Godly Relationship & Advocate Ministry)