FLAWLESS MARRIAGE?
WRITTEN BY DR. HESPEY
Few Months Ago, A Question Came To Me From A Member Of My Facebook Group, She Asked Me Whether There Are Perfect Marriages, Wether They Exist Or They Never Exist.
As A Very Young Counsellor, I Have Listened To Wonderful Marriage Counselors Preach A Wonderful Sermon That Put All Participants Into State Of Confusion Because They Thought Their Marriages Are Not Marriages At All.
God Has Always Arranges It In Such A Way That I Would Be Invited After Such ‘super Apostles Of Marriage’ Would Have Left The Mic.
Their Messages Revolve Round Them.
Some Have Said That Since They Were Married In 30 Years, They Have Never Disagreed With Their Spouses.
Something In Me Would Say, ‘hmmmmmm, A Sign Of Doubt & I Will Say This Is Not A Relationship!’
Each Of The Partners Would Have Lived A False Life.
The God That Created Anger Wants You To Use It Appropriately. The Bible Made Mentioned Of Getting Angry, But Sin Not & Let Not The Sun Set While You Are In Anger.
I Was Invited To A Place Where The Best And The Closest Family Was About Fifty Years.
The Man Was Asked For The Where About Of His Best Friend.
Guess His Answer ‘he Lives In Another Town. My Wife Also Knows Him’. Ha Ha Ha!
One Would Have Thought His Best Friend Was His Wife!
Another Couple Who Celebrated Their 50th Wedding Anniversary Was Interviewed Sometimes Ago.
Each Of Them Claimed Their Wedding Was Peaceful.
There Was No Quarrel, Argument Or Unhappiness Over Anything.
They Were Applauded.
When Each Was Asked Separately, The Man Said That If He Had Another Opportunity To Marry In Heaven, He Would Choose His Wife Again, Again And Again.
When The Wife Was Asked The Same Question, She Said That She Would Rather Remain Single For Eternity If Her Current Husband Was The Last Person Left For Her To Marry.
When She Was Asked For The Secret Of Her Peaceful Marriage, She Said That She Had Never Said ‘no’ To Anything Her Husband Suggested-even If That Would Lead Them To Hell.
Since That Would Make Them Keep Their Relationship, Although At The Expense Of Her Inner Peace And Fulfillment!
Every Home Is Peculiar And No Home Is Inferior Or Superior.
If What Happened To A Bad Relationship Also Happened To A Good Relationship Elsewhere, The Supposed Good Relationship Would Be Worse-and Not Bad.
No Marriage Should Compare Its Operation With Another Because; Each Is Operating On Different Platform Just As I Have Discussed This In The Nine Part Of The Ten Commandments For Godly Relationships Few Hours Ago.
Sometimes, The Physically Troubled Homes Are Much More Better Than The Supposed Peaceful Home.
I Think I Need To Say This Because There Are Many Homes That Are Tired, And Are Already Seeking Legal Advises.
Do Not Jump Out Of A Moving Train Just Because Of A False Alert; There Might Not Be Any Danger.
The Separated Wished They Had Approach The Matter Differently-after They Had Taken Such A Step!
If Every Partner Should Spend Half Of The Time He Or She Spends To Map Out Strategy To Frustrate The Spouse On How To Make The Home Better, Most Homes Would Have Been Wonderful.
Think About This!!!
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© ODERINDE TAIWO JOEL
DR. HESPEY (2017)
(Author of Building The Godly Youth)
(Founder of Godly Relationship & Advocate Ministry)
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