THE RELEVANT HUSBAND/FATHER - BY DR. HESPEY

THE RELEVANT HUSBAND/FATHER

WRITTEN BY DR. HESPEY

First Of All, Before I Start This Write Up, I Will Like To Appreciate All The Wonderful Husband/Fathers Out There. I Bless The Name Of The Lord For Their Lives & How They've Been The Best Among Their Peers.
Now Let's Start, One Thing That Comes To My Mind As The Father's Day Celebration Of The Nigerian Baptist Convention Comes Closer Is That: "What Really Is Being A Husband/Father Means"? "What Significant Role Is The Role A Husband/Father Plays In A Home"?
That Is Why I Am Coming Up With This Write Up. In My Course Of Study, I Discovered That Many Youths Rush Towards Being A Husband, But Neglect Being A Father & They Know Not Is Relevancy.
What You Must Note As A Single Guy Is That: Being Called A Husband/Father Isn't Just A Title For A Male. It Is A Name That Carries Responsibilities. And One Major Fact Is That Being Called A Husband/Father Isn't Just The Ability To Impregnate A Lady.
In A Just Concluded Research Of Mine, I Learnt That Being A Husband And A Father Are Perhaps Two Of The Most Important Roles Any Male May Have In Life, So It's Completely Normal To Want To Put Your Best Foot Forward.
Husband Means Houseband Which Comes In For Of A Circle Or A 4 Pillar Apartment; A Husband/Father Is A Band That Binds The House Together.
And According To Godliness, A Godly Husband Is A Priest, A Provider And A Protector. As A Priest A Relevant Husband/Father Subjects Himself To Christ And Opens The Word And Leads His Family To Christ Through Daily Family Worship At The Family Altar.
Being A Relevant Husband/Father Is Never Easy, Especially For Those Outside Christ's Dwelling Place.
To Be A Relevant Husband/Father, The First Thing You Need Is God. Then After That, Start By Showing Consideration For Your Family And Learning To Communicate With Them More Effectively. Remember That To Take Good Care Of Your Family, You Must Take Care Of Yourself, So Implement Positive Lifestyle Choices That Support Your Health And Well-being, Too.
Just Yesterday, In A Public Bus On My Way To Lagos, A Man Beside Me Said: "What's My Relevancy, If I Claim To Be A Father, But Doesn't Have Time For My Home"?
He Works In Lagos, But Resides In Ogbomoso Because Of His Family, He Travels On Daily Basis & Still Meet His Family's Need.
So To Be Relevant As A Husband/Father, You Need To Show Interest In Your Spouse And Kids No Matter What You Go Through. It’s Common For Many Families To Fall Into A Common Pattern Of Only Discussing Things Like The Kids’ Grades, Bills, Household Repairs, And Who’s Picking Up Whom From School Or Anywhere, You Need To Strike A New Chord When Communicating With Your Spouse And Kids By Adding Some New Topics To The Conversation Asides What's Compulsory For You As A Husband/Father.
Another Thing Is That, To Be A Relevant Husband/Father, You Must Also Be A Role Model And Practice What You Preach & Teach. But Don’t Expect Your Children To Follow Your Advice If Your Own Behavior Goes Against It. Hold Yourself Accountable For Meeting The Same Standards That You Set For Your Kids And Family. What I Have Come To Learn Is That, A Relevant Husband/Father Doesn't Lie In Front Of Their Kids. What They Do In Every Case Is To Show Honesty & Be Straightforward.
Few Bible Passages Lay Emphasis On The Role Of A Relevant Husband/Father.

According To The Book Of 1 Corinthians 7:1-40, The Deduced Part Of Relevancy Says: "A Relevant Husband/Father Is A Man Who Is Legally Married, And Take Care Of The Conjugal Rights Of His Family.

1 Timothy 3:2 Spokes Of A Relevant Husband/Father As An Overseer That Must Be Above Reproach, The Husband Of One Wife, Sober-minded, Self-controlled, Respectable, Hospitable And Able To Teach.
So To Be Relevant As A Man, You Have Lots Of Role To Play & There Are Rules Guiding Your Relevancy. Be The Right Comforter & Supplier For Your Home, That's Where Your Relevancy Starts As A Husband/Father.
I Pray The Lord Will Help Us All.
Happy Father's Day In Advance.

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MULTIPLE EX AVOIDANCE - BY DR. HESPEY

MULTIPLE EX AVOIDANCE

WRITTEN BY DR. HESPEY

Let Me Start This With A Brief Definition Of The Word "EX".
I Define "EX" As An Act Of Either Planned Or Unplanned Break Up That Occurs In A Courting Relationship And Even In Marriage.
But The Question That Comes To My Mind After Any Break Up Is That: MUST WE HAVE MULTIPLE EX BEFORE SETTLING FOR ONE?

For Those Who Can Understand This Write Up, Get It Clear: IT IS NOT MANDATORY FOR YOU TO HAVE AN EX OR MULTIPLE EX.

As A Young Counsellor, I Feel Hurt A Lot Whenever I See A Good Relationship Taking Another Dimension, But Just As I Was Ruminating On It, I Realized That Most People Only Knows How To Give Birth To Relationships, But Doesn't Know How To Keep Such Relationship Even After Lots Of Effort Towards It’s Creation.
Therefore, I Think It Is Necessary For Me To State Ways On How You Can Avoid Having Multiple Ex.
As A Guy If You Love A Lady & You Are So Sure You Are Been Led By The Spirit And The Love Is Genuine, Then Maintaining It Shouldn’t Be A Problem For You.
According To My Research, One Of The Major Reason That Brings About Having Multiple Ex Is The LACK OF THE SPIRIT OF DISCERNMENT. When You Lack That Spirit, You Will Never Know What's Going To Work Out Well For You And What's Not Going To Work Out Well.
So The Very First Thing Is To Be Able To Know What God's Will Are Concerning Yourself As A Whole.

SECONDLY, If You Must Avoid Having Multiple Ex, Then PRACTICE SEXUAL ABSTINENCE, Avoid The Act Of Pressurizing Your Partner To Do Things That Are Against Their Will. Let’s Assume You Are The Rough Guy Who Want Sex Before Marriage, And She Doesn’t, Its Certain You Will Lose Her. Losing Her Has Now Given Your Chances Of Having Multiple Ex A Grade.
And For Every Good Relationship, The Act Of Listening Must Be Cultivated, When You Fail To Listen, The Chances Of The Grade Keep Multiplying And With Time, It Will Start Rising Exponentially.

THIRDLY, I Believe Everybody Knows That Communication Is Very Essential, It Goes A Long Way To Remind That Guy/Lady, That You Are Thinking About Him/Her. But What Do You Think Will Happen When Communication Cease? So Be So Sure You Finalise How You Both Prefer Your Communication Skills To Be Handled.

FOURTHLY, The Act Of Being Too Demanding & Ruling Is Likely To Bring A Stop To Your Relationship. Avoid Allowing Your Will To Be Done At All Time. A Relationship Where You Want Your Words To Always Rule Will Diminishes The Love You Are Both Sharing, And As Time Goes On, If Not Taken Care Of, You May Lose Him/Her And Have Another (Which Means She Now Become An Ex).
Do You Know That As A Guy When A Lady You Claim You Love Sees You As An Opposer Of Her Goals & Objectives, This Can Bring A Stop To The Love She Have For You And Hereby Increases Your “having Multiple Ex” Grades. A Girl You Claim To Love Needs To Be Accepted Whichever Way She Is, Just Like The Word Of One Of My Inspirer (Revd. Sam Adeyemi) He Said And I Quote; You Are Actually Created To Change Some Things. I Want You To Note The Words “Some Things” Which Means You Are Not Being Created To Change Everything. So Bringing The Ability Of “Things Changer” To Your Relationship May Rule Out That Relationship.

To My Beautiful Queens & Princesses, You In Turn Have A Great Part To Play In Maintaining A Relationship, If The Love Is Real.
Lots Of Respect From A Lady To A Guy Keeps A Relationship & Extend Its Existence, If Probably You Notice He Is Angry, Don’t Be In A Hurry To Find Out What Is Wrong With Him At That Instance, Give It Time, Especially If He Is The One Without Temperament.
The Major Thing I Want You To Know Is That: A Nagging Girlfriend Will End Up Being A Nagging Wife, All Sort Of Nagging Won’t Lead Any Relationship Rightly, It Will Just Bring A Stop To It If Not Controlled.

The Message Above About The Ability To Change Things Includes You Ladies As Well, Just As It Won’t Be Of Any Help To A Guy Who Want To Change One Thing Or The Other From His Girlfriend, It Won’t Be Of Any Help Either To Any Lady Of Such Too.

As A Lady, When You Fail To Contribute Positively To Your Relationship, It May Lead To Break Up And Exs Will Start With Both Sides. Contribution To Relationship Isn’t All About Money, What I Believe Is That Words Alone Can Keep Things Going.

And Lastly: This Is Meant For Both My Kings & Queens.
Many Still Don’t Know Or Fail To Recognise The Presence Of Prayer In All Things Until Those Things Go Wrong. When Things That Can Bring The Issue Of “having Multiple Ex" Comes You Way, You Can Always Do The Fightings In Prayers.
As A Guy/Lady, You Aren’t Suppose To Fight And Argue With Your Partner, The Next Thing You Ought To Do Is To Pray For Him/Her, Pray For His/Her Heart And Every Angle Of His/Her Life That Needed To Be Changed.
Above All Put God In The Center Of Your Relationship, And There Is No Way You Can Lose.

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READINESS FOR MARRIAGE - BY DR. HESPEY

READINESS FOR MARRIAGE

WRITTEN BY DR. HESPEY

As A Student, I See Great Need For Preparation Against Anything, Preparation For Examinations Is An Act That Get One Ready For A Better Result And Pace In The Future.

So Bringing This Perspective Into Marriage, The Requirements Of Marriage Seems Missing In Most Of The Singles That Rush Towards Marriage This Days. Marriage Require Patience & Careful Readings Before It Can Be Walked Up To.
Marriage Requires Lots Of Patience, And Preparation Is A Well Known Equipment For Marriage As Well.

Like One Of My Saying: “PREPARATION & ADEQUATE CARE Makes Things Work The Way They Ought To.
This Is Why When It Comes To Marriage, You Don’t Have To Be Ready Before You Start Preparing For Marriage, And In Fact In A Real Sense, You Don’t Need To Be In Any Relationship Before You Start Preparing For Marriage.

As A Lady, The Hope That The Act Of VIRTUOUS CHARACTER CULTIVATION Gives Or Keep In Hidden For Your Proposed Marriage Is Never Limited.
So If You Are Actually Looking Up To A Day Of Marriage, You Need This Moment To Start Learning How To Be Submissive To Your Dad, Elders And Authorities, Not Because You Have Something To Collect From Them, But Because You’ll Need To Submit To Your Husband After Marriage.
You Need To Cultivate The Habit Of Waking Up Early, This Should Be So, Because What I Have Come To Learn Is That A Good Wife Is A Early Riser. And Most Importantly, The Key To A Good & Successful Marriage Doesn’t Just Have To Do With Looks Alone, It Covers Good Skills In Keeping A Home Through Betterment In Chores & The Nurturing Of Kids, Multi Task And How To Prepare Different Kind Of Food.

I Am Not Married Yet, But The Key That I See Which Holds Most Successful Marriages Around Me Is That The Women Are So Virtuous To The Extent That They Know What Gives Joy To Their Home And They Do It. They Learnt That What Makes A Wife Is Not Just The Wedding Ring. But How She Deals With Things Around Her And Keep Her Home.

Remember The Bible Says “He Who Finds A Wife… Proverb 18:22” Not He Who Finds A Lady Or Woman.
What Every Man Is Looking For Is A Wife, And Wives Are Made From Their Mothers’ House Not In A Man’s House.
So Learn And Prepare For That Man That Will Find You.

And To The Men,
You Also Need To Prepare And Learn.
First Of All, Learn How To Be A Good Brother, Friend, Husband, Father & Leader. Because You Weren’t Created To Have Dominion Over A Woman, And The Point Is That No Woman Wants A Ruler For A Husband But A Leader.
So Cultivate The Habit Of Giving Out Joy Instead Of Sorrow And Be A Cheerful Giver, Because This Doesn’t Limit Joy In Anyway. What Being A Cheerful Giver Does Is That: It Opens More Doors Of Blessings.

As A Man, You Need To Be Resourceful & Equipped. Learn How To Keep Your Home All Day Long By Investment If Possible.
And Lastly, All Things Without The Involvement Of The Creator Isn’t & Can Never Be Complete. So For A Happy Marriage In The Future, Start Now By Building A Very Close Relationship With God And Be Sensitive To Hear From Him When He Speaks.
Like The Common Saying: “If You Rush In, You Gonna Rush Out”, So Never Rush In For What Requires Adequate Preparation In Order Not To Rush Out Of The Divine Making Process Of God.

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(Founder of Godly Relationship & Advocate Ministry)

REASONS FOR SINGLENESS - BY DR. HESPEY

REASONS FOR SINGLENESS

WRITTEN BY DR. HESPEY

"Reasons For Singleness" Is An Article That Comes To My Mind Few Days Ago When Ruminating Most Of The Reasons Few Singles Gives For Not Being In Any Relationship.

It Is Certain That When You Do The Wrong Thing At The Right Time, The End Result Will Be Wrong. And When The Right Thing Is Being Done At The Wrong Time, The Result Can Never Be Right.

So Regarding Relationships, I Discovered That When One Start A Relationship At The Wrong Time, It May Or May Not Be Positive And This Will Likely Affect The Period Of Courtship & Later The Marriage.

So Being Single To Some Extent Seems To Be Very Lovely.

But Before I Proceed, Let Me Define Courtship.
I See Courtship As A Period For Both Man And Woman To Get To Know One Another For A Period Of Time, It Is This Period That Precede Marriage Where Both The Man & Woman Make Use Of The Opportunity To Figure Out If The Relationship Is Going To Work Between Them.
Through Lots Of Findings & Questioning I Have Seen Courtship Extending For A Period Of 3, 4, 5, 6 Years And Above And At The End Of It All, There Was No Joining Of Hands In Marriage.

For Those Who Have It In Mind To Ask, Those Who Have Been Asking & Wanting To Know The Reason Why I Am Still Single, Here It Is.
Though Reasons For Being Single Ought To Be Personal, But As A Relationship Counsellor. I See No Reason Keeping It When I Can Vividly See Lots Of Lessons Other Singles Can Learn From My Reasons.

One Of The Major For Most Singleness Is: To Avoid Long Term Relationship, Long Term Relationship Can Actually Hold One Back—from One's Dreams, One's Potential And One's Goals.
It Can Become Easy To Hide Out In Long-term Relationships; Forgoing Your Independence And Drive To Reach Your Potential And Take Risks In Going For Your Dreams.
Your Partner May Become Stagnant As Well.
As Far As I Am Concerned About Women, I See Them As An Adorable Image That Ought To Be Taken Care Of & Not To Be Taken For Granted.

When It Comes To Relationship Women Seems Not To Have That Much Time On Their Side In Courtship And Should Not Be Held Down By Unfulfilled Promises By Men.
If The Courtship Could Not Go According To Plan, Women Suffers The Most For It After Long Term Relationship In Which, She Would Have Been Used And Resulting In Dumping.
Staying In Long Term Courtship Without Actual Date And Plan For Your Marriage Yet Has Other Side Of The Story Which I Am Not Ready To Be A Failure At.
A Long Courtship Going Nowhere Strips A Woman Of Her Dignity And Self-esteem, Which Should Still Be Maintained.

My Dear Singles, Never Mourn Your Singleness.
Singleness Isn't A Sin Neither Is Singleness A Disease.
Never Allow Anyone To Make You Inferior.
You Can Be Single And Successful.

Singleness Ought Not To Seen As A Problem, And Get This Sure, Marriage Is Not Anybody's Right, Because It Is God That Grants Any Of Them As A Gift.
Another Thing Is That We All Are Not Created For Marriage, But Marriage Was Created For Us.
You Will Not Not Be Sent Out Of Heaven Simply Because You Are Not Married, But It Is For Sure That Marriage Can Take You To Hell If Marry The Wrong Person And Marrying The Wrong Person Is As A Result Of Doing Things In The Wrong Time.
Scientists And Phycologists Has Proof To Us That Marrying The Wrong Person Can Reduce The Life Of Someone By 62%, So It Is Better To Be Single Hoping To Be Married Than To Be Married Hoping To Be Single Again.

So My Dear Singles, Relax And Take Your Time, Use Your Singleness For Your God As Far As This Period Of Singleness Is Concern. And Wait For The Right Time.

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     DR. HESPEY (2018)

(Author of Building The Godly Youth)

(Founder of Godly Relationship & Advocate Ministry)

GIVING FITNESS TO YOUR MARRIAGE - BY DR. HESPEY

GIVING FITNESS TO YOUR MARRIAGE

EPISODE II

SPEND QUALITY TIME TOGETHER AS COUPLES OUGHT TO

WRITTEN BY DR. HESPEY

I Believe You Probably Have Fond Memories Of When You Were First Dating Your Loved One.
Everything May Have Seemed New And Exciting, And You May Have Spent Hours Just Chatting Together Or Coming Up With New, Exciting Things To Try.
However, As Time Goes By, Children, Demanding Jobs, Long Commutes, Different Hobbies And Other Obligations Can Make It Hard To Find Time Together.
It’s Critical For Your Relationship, Though, To Make Time For Yourselves.
If You Don’t Have Quality Time, Communication And Understanding Start To Erode.
Simple Ways To Connect As A Couple And Rekindle Love Commit To Spending Quality Time Together On A Regular Basis.
Even During Very Busy And Stressful Times, A Few Minutes Of Really Sharing And Connecting Can Help Keep Bonds Strong.
This Is What I Mean By Compatibility, Find Something That You Enjoy Doing Together, Whether It Is A Shared Hobby, Dance Class, Daily Walk, Or Sitting Over A Cup Of Coffee In The Morning.
Try Something New Together.
Doing New Things Together Can Be A Funny Way To Connect And Keep Things Interesting.
It Can Be As Simple As Trying A New Restaurant Or Going On A Day Trip To A Place You’ve Never Been Before.
Couples Are Often More Fun And Playful In The Early Stages Of A Relationship.
However, This Playful Attitude Can Sometimes Be Forgotten As Life's Challenges Or Old Resentments Start Getting In The Way.
Keeping A Sense Of Humour Can Actually Help You Get Through Tough Times, Reduce Stress, And Work Through Issues More Easily.
Focus On Having Fun Together, Think About Playful Ways To Surprise Your Partner, Like Bringing Flowers Or A Favourite Movie Home Unexpectedly.
Learn From The “PLAY EXPERTS” Together.
Playing With Pets Or Small Children Can Really Help You Reconnect With Your Playful Side.
If It’s Something You Do Together, You Also Learn More About Your Partner And How He Or She Likes To Have Fun.
Make A Habit Of Laughing Together Whenever You Can.
Most Situations Are Not As Bleak As They Appear To Be When You Approach Them With Humour.
Learning How To Play Again, A Little Humour And Playful Interaction Can Go A Long Way In Relieving Tense Situations And Helping You See The Brighter Side.
If You’re Feeling A Little Rusty, Learn More About How Playful Communication Can Improve Your Relationship, And For Fun Ways To Practice This Skill.
Be A Manager In Your Relationship And Manage It Well.

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     DR. HESPEY (2018)

(Author of Building The Godly Youth)

(Founder of Godly Relationship & Advocate Ministry)

SETTLING FOR THE LESS - BY DR. HESPEY

SETTLING FOR THE LESS

WRITTEN BY DR. HESPEY

"SETTLING FOR THE LESS" Is An Act Of Going For Something Below Your Standard Or Something That Is Far Low To What You Deserve. Settling Below What God Wanted For You.

I Have Been Pondering So Hard On The Reason(s) Why Most Youths Got Married And Later See Themselves In The Wrong Marriage.

So In A Case Study This Past Week, I Have Come To Discover Few Things That Brings About SETTLING FOR THE LESS And What SETTLING FOR THE LESS GIVES IN RETURN.

One Of Those Things That Bring About Settling For The Less Is IMPATIENT And LACK OF SELF CONTROL. In Every Human Who Lack Patience, There Will Always Be An Urge To Move More Than The Way They Are Destined To Move At An Instance Even by Their Maker.

But Lack Of Self Control Is The Major Key Of Which I Discovered That Is The Source Of Settling For The Less.

This Is So, Because In My Case Study This Past Week, I Came Across Three Different Guys With Some Set Of Ladies Who Are Their Wives. Seeing Them, I Felt This Isn't What They Deserve To Get Married To. But These Set Of Guys Settle For The Less Because They Couldn't Control Themselves.

Their Settlement Came In Through The Act Of FORNICATION, After Which They Became Entangled To A Lady Below Their Standard Each.

SETTLING FOR THE LESS Is Very Harmful In Marriage. In My Findings, This Is One Of The Major Reasons Why Some Men Commit Adultery. They Do So When They Discovered That What They Have Didn't Deserve Them Or That They Deserve More Themselves.

They Commit Adultery When They See Someone More Beautiful Than What They Have At Home.

So My Dear Singles, Take Your Time And Be Very Sure Of What You Want Before You Settle For It.

Know And Be Sure That This Is The Person You Are Ready To Live With Till The End.

Gain Self Awareness About Your Choice Of Partner And Their Willingness To Meet Your Emotional And Personal Needs During Marriage.

To Avoid Settling For The Less, You Need To Stop Putting Yourself Down And Stop Comparing Yourself To Other Friends Who Seems To Have Met A Partner Of Their Dream. Accept The Fact That Fear Of Being Single Is Normal.

So My Dear, Be Focus, Focus On Finding Your Passion Rather Than Finding A Life partner And Embrace Some Of The Pleasures Of Being Single. This Means, Instead Of Going And Looking Around The World For Someone You Love, Use Your Precious Time And Search For Something You Cherish.

Stay Faithful And Hope For God's Best.

I Say Again:
Take Your Time And Be Patient.
You Deserve The Best.

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DR. HESPEY (2018)

(Author of Building The Godly Youth)

(Founder of Godly Relationship & Advocate Ministry)

GIVING FITNESS TO YOUR MARRIAGE - BY DR. HESPEY

GIVING FITNESS TO YOUR MARRIAGE

EPISODE I
KEEP PHYSICAL INTIMACY ALIVE

WRITTEN BY DR. HESPEY

Through Few Interactive Section With Married Couples, I Have Come To Understand The Significant Role TOUCHING Plays In Any Intimacy, Especially When Done In The Right Aspect, Which Is Marriage.
Touch Is A Fundamental Part Of Human Existence.
Studies On Infants Have Shown The Importance Of Regular, Loving Touch And Holding On Brain Development.
These Benefits Do Not End In Childhood.
What I Have Learn Is That Life Without Physical Contact With Others Is A Lonely Life Indeed.
An From My Studies As A Medical Practitioner, It Has Been Discovered That Affectionate Touch Actually Boosts The Body’s Levels Of Oxytocin, A Hormone That Influences Bonding And Attachment.
In A Committed Relationship Of Marriage Between Two Adult Partners, Physical Intercourse Is Often A Cornerstone Of The Relationship.
However, Intercourse Should Not Be The Only Method Of Physical Intimacy In A Marriage.
Regular, Affectionate Touch, Holding Hands, Hugging, Or Kissing Is Equally Important During Marriage.
So You Need To Be Sensitive To What Your Partner Likes. While Touch Is A Key Part Of A Healthy Marriage, It’s Important To Take Some Time To Find Out What Your Partner Really Likes.
Unwanted Touching Or Inappropriate Overtures Can Make The Other Person Tense Up And Retreat, And That's Exactly What You Don’t Want. So Take Some Time And Show Some Love, Be Convalescent With Your Partner.

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DR. HESPEY (2018)

(Author of Building The Godly Youth)

(Founder of Godly Relationship & Advocate Ministry)