SETTLING FOR THE LESS - BY DR. HESPEY

SETTLING FOR THE LESS

WRITTEN BY DR. HESPEY

"SETTLING FOR THE LESS" Is An Act Of Going For Something Below Your Standard Or Something That Is Far Low To What You Deserve. Settling Below What God Wanted For You.

I Have Been Pondering So Hard On The Reason(s) Why Most Youths Got Married And Later See Themselves In The Wrong Marriage.

So In A Case Study This Past Week, I Have Come To Discover Few Things That Brings About SETTLING FOR THE LESS And What SETTLING FOR THE LESS GIVES IN RETURN.

One Of Those Things That Bring About Settling For The Less Is IMPATIENT And LACK OF SELF CONTROL. In Every Human Who Lack Patience, There Will Always Be An Urge To Move More Than The Way They Are Destined To Move At An Instance Even by Their Maker.

But Lack Of Self Control Is The Major Key Of Which I Discovered That Is The Source Of Settling For The Less.

This Is So, Because In My Case Study This Past Week, I Came Across Three Different Guys With Some Set Of Ladies Who Are Their Wives. Seeing Them, I Felt This Isn't What They Deserve To Get Married To. But These Set Of Guys Settle For The Less Because They Couldn't Control Themselves.

Their Settlement Came In Through The Act Of FORNICATION, After Which They Became Entangled To A Lady Below Their Standard Each.

SETTLING FOR THE LESS Is Very Harmful In Marriage. In My Findings, This Is One Of The Major Reasons Why Some Men Commit Adultery. They Do So When They Discovered That What They Have Didn't Deserve Them Or That They Deserve More Themselves.

They Commit Adultery When They See Someone More Beautiful Than What They Have At Home.

So My Dear Singles, Take Your Time And Be Very Sure Of What You Want Before You Settle For It.

Know And Be Sure That This Is The Person You Are Ready To Live With Till The End.

Gain Self Awareness About Your Choice Of Partner And Their Willingness To Meet Your Emotional And Personal Needs During Marriage.

To Avoid Settling For The Less, You Need To Stop Putting Yourself Down And Stop Comparing Yourself To Other Friends Who Seems To Have Met A Partner Of Their Dream. Accept The Fact That Fear Of Being Single Is Normal.

So My Dear, Be Focus, Focus On Finding Your Passion Rather Than Finding A Life partner And Embrace Some Of The Pleasures Of Being Single. This Means, Instead Of Going And Looking Around The World For Someone You Love, Use Your Precious Time And Search For Something You Cherish.

Stay Faithful And Hope For God's Best.

I Say Again:
Take Your Time And Be Patient.
You Deserve The Best.

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© ODERINDE TAIWO JOEL

DR. HESPEY (2018)

(Author of Building The Godly Youth)

(Founder of Godly Relationship & Advocate Ministry)