THE BEST GIFT FROM A DAD.
INTRODUCTION:
Few Months Back, I Recall Listening To A Muslim Scholar’s Ministration. This Ministration Talks About A Father Who Call Up All His Children To Question Them About What He Had Best Done For Them As A Father.
The First Child Said “father, You Gave Us Good Education.” The Father Responded By Saying “yes, But That Wasn’t My Best.”
The Second Child Said “oh Father, You Gave Us Good Morals.” The Father Still Replied With “yes, But It Still Not My Best.”
Another One Said “father, We Never Lack Anything In All Ramifications.” The Father Said “yes, But This Wasn’t Still My Best For You All.
Then With Curiosity, The Last Child Said “father, They Taught Us That Our Best Days Are Usually Ahead Of Us Not Behind Us. But Since You Claim Yours Is Behind You, What Then Was The Best Thing You Ever Did For Us?”
The Father Responded By Saying “yes, It Was My Best And It’s Behind Me, But It’s Serving You Till This Very Moment. The Best Thing I Ever Did For You All Was That Before You Were Born, I Choose A Good Woman (Mother) For You.”
MESSAGE:
Just As You Are Shock Right Now On Hearing This From A Man, So Was I When I First Listened To That Ministration From An Intelligent Muslim Scholar.
In Relationship And Marriage, You Seriously Need To Know That Your Choice Of Man Or Woman Is A Big Determinant Factor On The Kind Of Home You’re Going To Build. The Choice Of A Partner Will Surely Affect The Quality Of The Home You Build.
What Manner Of Woman Are You Toasting As A Guy? What Manner Of Man Are You Going Out With As A Lady?
My Life As Case Study, I Can Tell That I Got This Best Gift From My Dad As Well, He Got For Himself And For Us A Woman Who Led Us To Throne Of Mercy, A Woman Who Mumbles Every Morning Like She Was Out Of Her Mind.
I Could Recall There Was A Time I Questioned Her For Mumbling, She Said “son, This Kind Of Prayer Is What Saved My Life. You Really Need To Try It Sometime.”
In Real Sense, She Was A Communicator With Christ.
She Usually Drag Me To Church, Especially The Mid-week Programs. And She Did Something That I Detested Back Then.
In The Baptist Setting, The Children (Age 2 - 10) Department Known As “the Sunbeam” Is Usually Being Coordinated By The WMU (Women Missionary Union) Of Which Mum As A Woman Belong To. I Could Remember Most Of The Time, This Woman Would Voluntarily Bring Me A Task From Church Without My Consent. There Was This Year She Got Home On A Saturday Night Only To Hand Me Over A List Of Bible Verses To Be Memorized And Read The Following Day In The Church Full Of Its Members.
All These Got Me Running, I Was Like “mum, Why?” Her Response Was “hey Son, One Day You’ll Thank Me For Having God In Your Life.”
And Yea, She Was Right, Because Right Now, I’m Talking To Jesus, And It was Her Who Got Me Talking To Jesus.
Dad’s Choice Of Woman Got Me The Life That A Lot Of People Are Praising Right Now. His Choice Of A Good Woman Make Me Who I Am Growing To Become.
What Do You Think Would Have Become Of Me If Dad Had Settle For Something Less? What Do You Think Would Have Become Of Me If He Had Married The Wrong Woman? What Exactly Would I Have Turn Out To Become If He Had Chosen A Woman Who Didn’t Know Who Christ Is?
CONCLUSION:
There Is A Wrong Way To Do This, But There Is No Bad Time To Start. You Can Start Now, Start Thinking Of Best Gift For Your Unborn Kids. Woo The Right Woman As A Guy, Accept The Right Man Into Your Life As A Lady. Settle Not For What Just Fits You But Won’t Fit Well For Your Unborn Children. Ensure What Fits You, Will Equally Fit Your Children Well.
Settle For What Is Right, Because This Is A Major Determinant Factor Of The Kind Of Children You Will Raise. It Is A Major Determinant Factor Of The Kind Of Society We Create As Families.
Remember That Choosing The Right Man Or Woman Is Only Possible With God On The Throne. It Doesn’t Matter How Far You Go In Search Of Him Or Her, Just Let God Be The Foundation Of Your Search.
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