MASTURBATION: VINDICATIVE OR IMPLICATIVE? - BY DR. HESPEY

MASTURBATION: VINDICATIVE OR IMPLICATIVE?

WRITTEN BY DR. HESPEY

Masturbation Is Actually An Act Of Toying Or Playing With One's Organs To Bring Out Sexual Urges And It Is A Common Activity. It’s A Natural And Safe Way To Explore Your Body, Feel Pleasure, And Release Built-up Sexual Tension. In My Recent Case Study, I Discovered It Occurs Among People Of Different Genders, And Races.
The Real Truth Is That There Are Actually No Physically Harmful Side Effects Of Masturbation. However, Masturbation Can Be IMPLICATIVE On Your Relationships And Everyday Life. Other Than That, Masturbation Is A Fun But Unhealthy In Some Aspect Of Medical & Religiously.

Through My Counselling Years, I Have Come Across Many People Who Think That Masturbation Is Really Nothing To Worry About, But In Real Sense, It Can Be IMPLICATIVE By Becoming A Bad Addiction.

Now Let's Take It To A Case Study Of A Drunkard Who Fools Himself That He Is Not Addicted To Alcohol, People Who Are Addicted To Masturbation Will Deny The Fact That They Have Become Addicts.

Recent Brain Science Research Gives Us New Insight Into This Complex Topic. From Your Brain's Perspective, Masturbation Is Literally "Self-sex" Which Can Create Three Challenges:

1. The Neurochemical Rush Triggered By Sexual Experiences Can Turn Masturbation Into A Convenient Drug Of Choice For Pleasure, Escape, And Self-medication From Loneliness, Boredom, Insomnia, Negative Emotions, And The Stresses Of Life. Over Time, The Brain's Highly Efficient Powers Of Habit-formation Turn Masturbation Into A Chemical Dependency Which Is Termed "Addiction".

2. Masturbation Interferes With Healthy Sexuality In A Marriage. The Same Neurochemicals That, During Marital Intimacy, Enhance Your Relationship With Your Spouse, Redirect Your Desire Toward Your Self Rather Than Your Spouse. Over Time, "Self-sex" Becomes Your Brain's Preferred Method For Achieving Sexual Gratification.

3. Masturbation Is Contrary To God's Plan For Sexuality To Be Self-giving With Love. As An Act Of Self-gratification Focused On Lust, Masturbation Cheats Both The Individual And The Spouse Out Of The Powerful Potential God Built Into Human Sexuality. Habitual Masturbation Can Lead A Person To Look At All Of Life From A Selfish And Lustful Point Of View.

Other Deduced Implicative Part Of Masturbation Gotten From Those Who In Time Past Were Victims Are As Follows:
Headache
Dizziness
Nervousness
Pain In The Shoulders And Sides
Pain In The Back And Legs
Rheumatism - Inflammation Or Pain In Muscles, Joints, Or Fibrous Tissue
Loss Of Appetite Leading To Weight Loss
Fluid Retention (Edema) – Weight Gain
Insomnia
Tiredness
Great Exhaustion After Exercising
Sallow Countenance (Your Face Looks Like You Have The Flu – That Sick, Dead Look)
Loss Of Memory And Sight
Loss Of Concentration And Focus (Brain Fog)
Increased Risk Of Cancer
Abrasions Or Swelling Of The Penis
Difficulty In Performing Real Sexual Intercourse Because Of A Weak Erection
Premature Ejaculation
Semen Leakage
Reduced Orgasm
Loss Of Sex Drive Towards The Opposite Sex.
Not Only Will Your Body Be Affected, But Your Mind Too Will Also Be Tampered With.

So Having Known All These IMPLICATIONS, Now Lets Get Down To The Way Out Of All These Implications.
The Following Are Ways To Avoid This Act.

1. Talk To Someone You Trust.

The Very First Thing Is To Discuss With Someone Of Better Reputation. If You Feel Like It’s Becoming Hard For You To Avoid Masturbation, Try Talking To Someone You Trust And Who Can Help You. These People Can Include Your Church Pastor, Counsellor, Close Relative Or Friend. It Is Certain That You May First Feel Like It’s Embarrassing But At The End, You Will Find Help And Avoid Getting Addicted To Masturbation.

2. Don’t Watch Pornography:

Watching Porn Can Easily Lead To Masturbation. Instead Of Watching This Diminishing Videos, Try Watching Something Comical Or Non-sexual Related Content.

3. Avoid Being Alone:

Being Alone Can Prompt Ideas Of Masturbation Especially If You Have Tried It Once. Having People Around You Will Stop You From Having Such Ideas. Always Try To Be In The Public And With Time You Will Be Able To Completely Stop Masturbation.

4. Avoid Reading Articles Which Suggest Masturbation Is Good Or Not Harmful:

Reading Such Articles Will Make You Feel Like You Are Doing The Right Thing And Thus, You Will Easily Get Addicted To Masturbation. Instead, Read The Articles Suggesting That Masturbation Is Bad And Very Harmful And Can Destroy Your Relationship With God. This Way You Will Not Even Think Of Masturbation Let Alone Doing It.

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DR. HESPEY (2018)