SECURING A RESPONSIBLE MAN - BY DR. HESPEY

SECURING A RESPONSIBLE MAN

PART 5

BE A GOOD SOURCE

WRITTEN BY DR. HESPEY

I Was Actually Inspired To Write This Fifth Part Of This Write Up By A Yoruba Proverb Which Says: "Ile Latin Ma N Ko Eso Ro 'de" Meaning For Whichever Beauty Or Deeds, One's Home Is Usually The Source and always responsible for it. 

Psychological Studies Have Shown That People Seek Out Partners To Fill A Psychological Void. 

Sometimes These Voids Are Unhealthy; For Example A Woman Who Is Unhealthy Will Actually Seek Out Any Man For The "High Of Seduction" Or To Get Attention And Feel Desirable.

This Is Why As A Lady, You Need To Look Inside Yourself And Ask Yourself Why You Want A Man So Badly, You Need To Be Truly Honest With Yourself And If Need Be, Talk To A Therapist About This.

A Woman With Issues Only Attracts A Guy With Issues As Well, And A Good, Real Man Doesn't Want Anything To Do With A Woman Who Has More Issues Than Time Magazine.

If You Want A Good, Healthy Relationship With A Real Man, Make Certain That Your Own Mental State And Intentions Are Healthy & Pure.

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     DR. HESPEY (2017)

(Author of Building The Godly Youth)

(Founder of Godly Relationship & Advocate Ministry)

SECURING A RESPONSIBLE MAN - BY DR. HESPEY

SECURING A RESPONSIBLE MAN

PART 4

REALIZE DIFFERENCES IN COMMUNICATION

WRITTEN BY DR. HESPEY

After Talking About Being Cool Headed And Having A Relaxed Body As The Third Part Of This Write Up, I See Realization Of What Communication Means As The Next Key To Acquire A Better Man In The Future.

This Is Needed Because proving hard to get can make you skip the man that is well suitable for you and Men Can Often Miss The Subtle Messages That Women Send In Their Body Language. Don't Judge A Guy Because Of This; It's Just The Way Men Are.

Subtle Body Language Like Smiles Only Make A Man Think That You Might Like Him; He Can't Assume It Means You're Interested Without Being Accused Of Being A Self-absorbed Jerk. 

To Drive The Point Home, Gradually Introduce More "Obvious" Body Language Like Playful Banter And Teasing, Winks, Inside Jokes, Playfulness, Or (When You Know Him Better) Attempts To Find A Man's Ticklish Spots.

(Don't Be Afraid To Kindly Tease Him Over Minor Things - Women Who Pretend A Man Is Perfect Are Regarded As Weak In Their Eyes.)

This Will Not Only Show Him You Like Him Enough To Get That Physical And Playful, But Also Help To Break The Physical Barrier And Allow A Man To Feel More Comfortable Making A Few Advances To You.

But Don't Forget To Look At How He Is Reacting To You.

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     DR. HESPEY (2017)

(Author of Building The Godly Youth)

(Founder of Godly Relationship & Advocate Ministry)

SECURING A RESPONSIBLE MAN - BY DR. HESPEY

SECURING A RESPONSIBLE MAN

PART 3

LEARN TO BE RELAXED AND COOL

WRITTEN BY DR. HESPEY

What Made Me Choose To Write About This Topic Is Not Just Because I Felt So, But Because I Actually Want To Help Those Frustrated Sisters Who Find It So Hard To Get The Man Of Their Dreams, In The Course Of Seekong For The Best, They Ended Up Falling For The Wrong And Irresponsible Ones.

But What You Must Note Is That Most Guys Hate It When Girls Are Possessive, Moody, Clingy, Controlling, Etc.

As A Lady, You Need To Be Calm, Just As The Yorubas Will Say It: "Eni Ti O Te Ori Mole Lo Mo Nkan To N Wa" (He Who Is Calm & Cool Headed Knows What He/She Is Looking For). So You Need To Learn To Be Relaxed, And Have Fun.

We All Have Too Much Going On In Our Lives; Don't Be The High Maintenance "Drama Queen". 

The Fact Is That Having A Woman Around Who Makes Life More Difficult Than Enjoyable Will Make A Man Lose Interest And Look For A Better Option.

If You Do Things That Has To Do With Showing Genuine Concern When The Man Has Had A Rough Day, It Will Earn His Respect And Go Toward Winning Him Over And A Good Man Will Reciprocate.

Remember That Most Men, Especially The Good Ones, Are Looking For Someone With Whom They Can Be Comfortable With, And Not Someone Who Is Always Intense.

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     DR. HESPEY (2017)

(Author of Building The Godly Youth)

(Founder of Godly Relationship & Advocate Ministry)

SECURING A RESPONSIBLE MAN - BY DR. HESPEY

SECURING A RESPONSIBLE MAN

PART 2

LEARN TO HAVE A PERSONAL LIFE

WRITTEN BY DR. HESPEY

The First Part Of The Write Up Was On How & Reasons Why You Need To BE YOURSELF, In This Second Part, Just As Being Your Able Self Is Important, So It Is For You To HAVE A LIFE Of Your Own.

You Actually Have A Life Given By The Creator, So The Life Am Talking About Here Is To Have A Life That Is Not Depending On Any before it could survive.

Desperate, Dramatic, And Clingy Relationships Are Often Rooted In A Feeling Of Need And Desperation For A Man To Fill Your Life.

Even If You Have Low Self-esteem, Work Over Time To Build It. Pursue Your Goals And Be Focused, Explore Your Passions, Have An Interesting Life, Do Things That Take You Outside Your Boundaries. 

Don't Put Up A Tough Exterior To Get Over Shyness; Gradually Learn To Build Trust With A Network Of People, So That Your Boyfriend Isn't The Only Person You Open Up To And Share Your Life With.

Also Remember To Trust Yourself First.

If You Can't Trust Yourself, You Are Likely To Not Trust Your Man.

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     DR. HESPEY (2017)

(Author of Building The Godly Youth)

SECURING A RESPONSIBLE MAN - BY DR. HESPEY

SECURING A RESPONSIBLE MAN

PART 1

WRITTEN BY DR. HESPEY

BEING YOURSELF

The Need For This Write Up Is Just To Enlighten Some Ladies. In My Counselling Career, When You Meet A Lady And Ask Her How She Was Able To Get The Man She's Dating Or Courting With, She Will Tell You Its Because "Am Beautiful Sir", But To Be Sincere With Ourselves My Dear, Getting A Good & Responsible Man Isn't An Easy Task.

So Therefore, It Is Not An Easy Task For Women To Find A Good And Responsible Man. And To Be Honest It Is Not Easy For A Man Either To Find A Good And Responsible Woman.

This Write Up Is Written From My Own Perspective To Help Frustrated Women That Are Sincerely Looking For A Good Man But Keep Finding Losers Coming Their Way.

To Get A Responsible Man, There Are Things You Need To Do About Yourself, And Of Which The Very First Should Be Being Yourself:

When You Meet Someone For The First Time, You May Be Tempted To Be Someone You're Not, Such As "Putting On Your Best Face".

There's Nothing Wrong With Wanting To Make A Good Impression. However, I Have Come To Learn That It Is Possible To Take This Too Far And In Turn Repel Men.

The Same Applies With Myths About Dressing Sexy And Excessive Flirtation. The Fact Is That If You Do Not Respect Your Body, You Will Only Attract Men Who Have A Similar Lack Of Respect For You And Your Body, And A Good And Responsible Man Will Find It More Difficult To Take You Seriously.

BE YOURSELF, AND A REAL MAN WILL RESPECT YOU.

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© ODERINDE TAIWO JOEL

    DR. HESPEY (2017)

(Author of Building The Godly Youth)

PURITY LESSON - BY DR. HESPEY

PURITY LESSON

LESSON 3

WRITTEN BY DR. HESPEY

In This Lecture Of Purity, There Is A Great Need To Touch Reasons Why You Need To Be Purified.

Reasons To Be Purified Are Of Many Categories.

First Of All, Purity Paves The Way To True Intimacy And It’s Risk Free. When You Choose Purity, Its A Sign That You Know And Agree To The Fact That Sex Is Worth Waiting For And That You Are Worth Waiting For.

Another Thing Is That Sexual Purity Let You Know That Aids Doesn’t Discriminate And That Std’s Are Increasing And It Point Out To You That “condom Sense” Is Not Enough.

The Fact Remains That There Is No Such Thing As “safe Sex”, So If You Fail To Choose Purity, You Hereby Loose Worth, Meanwhile If You Choose Purity, It Increases Self-respect And It Encourages Commitment. This Is So, Because Your Future Babies Need A Lot More Than Love Which Is Commitment.

I Must Let You Know That The Decision To Choose Sexual Purity Is Honest And Very Effective. Because During This Decision, No Risk Is Attached And No Regret Later At The End. So You Must Note That Today’s Choices Are Tomorrow’s Future And It Is In God’s Plan For Us To Stay Pure Until Marriage.

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   DR. HESPEY (2017)

(Author of Building The Godly Youth)

EFFECT OF PREMARITAL SEX - BY DR. HESPEY

​EFFECT OF PREMARITAL SEX

PART ONE

WRITTEN BY DR. HESPEY

CHANGE IN APPEARANCE

When you tell some people about changes in some things, they disagreed, probably because they've not been observing or they've been ignoring the fact about CHANGE. For sexual acts, there used to be differences BEFORE & AFTER.

I don't know if perhaps you've ever noticed how people who have had sex outside of marriage begin to look different? They begin to look OLD, USED and WORN OUT. Like a toy that has been used over and, over again begins to lose its physical appearance, so does a person who continually has sex outside of marriage. Take it or leave it.

Many try to mask this "WORN OUT” look by adding more make-up or wearing more revealing clothes to take the attention off their face and put it on their body.

Many girls who are sexually active and taking birth control gain up to 25 lbs. Meanwhile this unnecessary weight gain can also alter your appearance.

Many ladies personally recognized a change in their physical appearance after losing their virginity probably through their breast or body shape. 

They remember looking through their pictures one day and they came across a picture of themselves during their senior year in high school (AS A VIRGIN), and a picture taken during their freshman year in college (AFTER LOSING THEIR VIRGINITY).

It may sound strange, but somehow they looked harder.

Their face didn’t glow the way it did in their high school pictures and their countenance had changed.

It really hit them at that moment how much of themself they had lost.

Join this December campaign:

#PREMARITAL_SEX_IS_IMPURE

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© ODERINDE TAIWO JOEL

   DR. HESPEY (2017)

(Author of Building The Godly Youth)