TRAINING ON SEX: PRE OR POST MARRIAGE?
WRITTEN BY DR. HESPEY
I bless the name of the Lord for who he really is, and for his ways of seeing the importance in his creations.
God created sexual activities as a means of reproduction, pleasure & showing love among couples. He created it to bring in intimacy & to bring to fulfillment each & every of his plan to mankind.
But the question is: Do we really see all these importance as they ought to be seen? Do we view all these benefits in the mirror of its creator?
Lying awake, I thought of what other reason (s) could be behind most broken or shattered homes, and the idea of sexual training & its practice came into my mind.
Now the real question is: should sexual training come before or after marriage?
Well, in a recent tutorial class, we were made to understand that "he who fail to plan has actually plan to fail", but does this include sexual training?
One thing we all need to know is that: "whatever we plan or train for, actually requires its implementation. And bringing it to God's laid down plan for sexual activities, it is meant to be fulfilled among the married ones. So why train for it when you aren't married?
This is why as a counsellor, I see the training of sexual activities before marriage as a tool that is harmful. This is true, because "for every training, there must be a practice". In a contemporary world, PRE marriage sexual training does nothing, but bring you closer to the risk of fornication and this in turn create boundary between you and your maker.
I have come across some couples whose partner is never satisfied sexually, and in the course of looking for satisfaction, he or she may need to step out to fulfil that desire and when questioned, one of those reasons that brought about the act usually comes from the act of PRE marriage training on sex which in turn led to adultery.
Post marriage training on sex is the best line of advice a better counsellor can ever give. One thing that is certain about post marriage training on sex is that: "you won't be trained by any other than your partner" & "you will both train each other to your satisfaction" & "through God's given grace, you will both fulfil God's plan by doing his will".
The act of PRE marriage training on sex was discussed in the bible and described as the act of "awakening love when it's not ripe".
Dear brethren & sister, it is always a thing of joy when each & every game is being played according to the rules guiding them. Play your game as expected of God.
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DR. HESPEY (2018)
